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Tag: Kindness
Genuine Intent Among Friends
There are more than two types of individuals in any friendship circle. Some people will deserve and appreciate your kindness. Those people will reciprocate your efforts. Others will take your kindness for weakness and not care to give freely of themselves in return. It takes two caring persons to form a special relationship, a bond, or a connection. Yes, as the saying goes, “You’re only as strong as your weakest link. If people don’t change their selfish ways, the relationship becomes flawed and is destined for failure.
In the “Circle of Friendship, it takes two energetic and enthusiastic persons to complete the perpetual cycle of solidarity. “In the game of LIFE, there are genuine players, who play for the thrill of the game. Then there are fraudulent players, who will do anything just for the sake of winning. If you and your teammates don’t share common interests, check out and change your course. You have to all be focused on the same goals and move in the same direction.
All relationships undergo transformations. People who are genuinely interested in a friendship with you, will help you and not compete against you. Friends work together from the center in a productive manner to forge a solid, closed force. No one should be allowed to cross known boundaries for personal gain or self recognition. Not even outsiders could penetrate a strong kinship.
It is a beautiful thing when like minded friends relate well in their attitudes and agree to the same principles. This is not always the case though. If one person lacks good morals or makes poor judgments, the other needs to check them. “True friendships” are not conditional. The goal is to assist each other in order to succeed together, without seeming biased or envious.
People eventually show you who they are. Don’t be blinded by falsehoods and bravado or else you will be blindsided and disappointed. Having expectations of someone is normal but not necessary. If that someone is considerate, they will not hurt your feelings. Pay attention to what people do- as well as, hear what they say. Don’t let mere words affect your outlook on anyone. Words can cloudy your judgment. Base how you feel on what you receive in totality. LOVE THOSE WHO LOVE YOU!
It baffles me that family members are not automatically friends. We choose our acquaintances by engaging in similar activities and then finding out that we exhibit familiar characteristics. Yes, sometimes opposite personalities attract. Mostly, people gravitate towards others who they think they can relate to. Blood relationships doesn’t denote sincerity among relatives. Natural friendliness is far better than forced association. People are who they are and one cannot try to change another simply because they want to. If you can’t be yourself around your family or express yourself around so-called friends, that’s problem #1. Also, if a friendship feels fake, let it go because it is fake. Don’t beg or compete for anybody’s attention or affection. It’s not worth it. Value yourself and be a loner, until you make relationships elsewhere. It takes time to develop faithful friendships. Your goodwill is worth waiting for.
Selfish people lack concern for others. They are self seeking by default (self-serving by definition). No need to feel sorry for them. They could care less how their unscrupulous behavior harms the whole community around them. These folks do not deserve second chances. If you are let down by someone you thought that you could trust, forgive yourself. Your problem was putting your faith in man, and not God alone (problem #2). He will fight your battles and carry you through disagreements and disappointments.
I am a firm believer in repentance and redemption. However, one soul can only take so much abuse. Don’t let “sorry folks” tell you they are sorry. By the time self-centered people realize that they damaged your relationship, it’s too late for apologies. If you keep accepting less than you deserve, people will give you subpar attention and unwanted scars (problem #3).
Give yourself space from critical people. Put distance between you and toxic situations (solution #1). Take chances with new faces. Don’t judge… Just be smart and pay attention. Start new attachments without over extending your natural self. Never let anyone alter your positive spirit! Maintain your standards and be mindful of your expectations (solution #2). An honest person is straightforward. An authentic friend will reward you with kindness, without you looking for it. A loving partner, is courageous enough for you both… Able to tell you the truth and be there for you as a sounding board. Real friends have good intentions and pure hearts. Sometimes, it may take awhile to figure out who they really are, so be patient and cautious. Communicate your thoughts and watch to see if your viewpoint is respected. You may not always be understood, but expect to be heard. Choose to be surrounded by honest and fair individuals. Be selective in the company that you keep. You may get lucky and find a caring, long-lasting friend, that you’d least anticipated. Don’t settle on mediocre pacts. Be the friend that you would want in return. Show people how you want to be treated. Give love and inspire others to love you back. Hopefully, they will or you can choose to limit your generosity (solution #3). Remember, God can be your best confidant when you call on him. Always maintain your level of self confidence and self-love.
Loyalty is a two-lane highway. In life, there is enough room for you both to speed ahead without bumping into each other. Even if you find that your friends may begin to travel opposite you, you wish them well and pray for them. Focus on your path and those who support you will cheer you on your journey.
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WONDERING EYES
Would you rather be blind and wise or become stricken with dumbness and be filthy rich?
Only fools seek more from everything in the pursuit for happiness instead of counting small blessings already in their possession
Even with closed eyes, one can see clearly the meaning of life the purpose for living and find numerous reasons to smile
The wise see through discerning eyes They know the truth of peace the secret to wealth and the power of love
If you are an inquisitive kind, then you too, must continually seek knowledge of your history your culture your family
Feed your mind! Success comes to dreamers and believers Wake up to realize- God is love He provides for those who help themselves and those who give freely to the less fortunate
Visualize your goals tap into that stored energy Your every existence is to be fruitful, productive and generous Always remember- fortune and fame are not the end game It is okay to be curious keep those eyes open wide Your fascination with the unknown need not be contained Allow your wondering eyes to guide you for many miles Let your imagination propel your spirit forward but not to seek money or material gain Be in search of honesty behind lies integrity within humanity grace and harmony that can be found scattered around the world It’s alright to express excitement with each moment Be in awe as you look ahead towards your destination Enjoy every minute of your journey with wondering eyes
My personal mission consists of uncovering the secrets of little girls and boys shattering their fears and destroying the monsters that plague them
Children see their surroundings with wondering eyes and to their amazement and surprise nothing seems impossible Children require constant care Children need support with their small ideas and big aspirations It is our responsibility to nurture them It is our duty to remind them- Go to God in prayer As long as we put our faith in him, we will never be left in darkness Unexpectedly, we all somehow lose our way
With wondering eyes we can easily become disoriented
On your best day, be a light to others Come to know God’s worth teach the ignorant display kindness preach to the hesitant lead the weak with your wondrous sight be understanding remain patient be true to yourself and stay humble
Fools deserve forgiveness. No one is perfect The meek will inherit the earth Open your eyes those wondering eyes Be inspired God gave us eyes to see eyes to witness miracles eyes to gaze at each other’s amazing beauty God had mercy on everyone
Our eyes have the ability to focus on our dreams our wondering eyes are capable of seeing impossible things and taking notice of beautiful human beings.
Change your direction and Change your perspective!
Frederica's Passions 
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